If You’re In Love With Someone It Means…?
So… I was thinking about Love this morning.
Sitting on the floor of my apartment by the balcony in a square of sunshine, laptop balanced on my knees, head resting sideways against the glass door staring at the patch of blue sky overhead.
If you Love Someone, it means you will:
- never love anyone else ever
- live in the same house, sleep in the same bed
- marry them
- have kids with them
But does it?
I’ve got the uneasy feeling this is something else I was taught that isn’t true. That the only person worthy of saying “I Love You” to is the person you know you would do all of the above with.
Can someone say I Love You if they’re not sure if they’d have babies with the other person? Can they say I love You even if they know they wouldn’t move countries for them?
I know people who would say yes, absolutely, love comes in many different forms. And people would say, no, love isn’t temporal, it’s eternal and numero uno.
As with everything, it is probably whatever you want to define it.
And so another age old question goes onto my list…
What Is Love?